Life’s a Juggle – But You Don’t Have to Catch Every Ball

Juggling the Demands of Life Life can often feel like a constant juggling act. Between work commitments, personal responsibilities, family obligations, and the unexpected curveballs that get thrown our way, it can be overwhelming trying to keep all the balls in the air. But the reality is, we’re not superheroes – we’re only human. And […]

Adapting, Growing, and Thriving: Lessons from the Woodland

The Changing Seasons at Blue Bell Wood The sun is shining, and for the first time in months, I’ve shed my usual woolly hat, a small but delightful sign of the changing seasons here at Blue Bell Wood. The primroses are blooming, and I’m eagerly anticipating the arrival of the bluebells in the coming months. […]

Embracing the Beauty of Hard Work in the Woods

Finding Joy in Nature Spending time in the woods has a way of grounding us, bringing clarity and a deep sense of connection. Today was no exception. I arrived at my woodland retreat early in the morning, eager to get started on a new project. This time, I was working with Justin to build a […]

Marking 67½: Looking Back, Looking Forward

Today I am 67 and 26 weeks Halfway through my 67th year, I find myself reflecting, not just on this moment, but on the years that have shaped it. Looking back to 60 and 65, I see distinct chapters, each defined by transformation, adventure, and self-discovery. Looking ahead to 70 and beyond, I feel a […]

Imbolc: Embracing New Beginnings in Career and Life

As the wheel of the year turns to Imbolc on February 1st/2nd, we witness nature’s first stirrings of spring. Those earliest primroses pushing through frost-touched earth remind us that even in life’s wintertime, new growth is always possible. This ancient Celtic festival, marking the midpoint between winter solstice and spring equinox, has long been celebrated […]

The Rewards of Solitude: A Deeper Reflection

I want to return to the topic of aloneness which I covered in this article. This was prompted through an article by James Marriott in todays Times Newspaper and one from The Atlantic. John O’Donohue’s words continue to guide us: “Each one of us is alone in the world. It takes great courage to meet […]

How to Spark Joy and Enrich Your Life Every Day

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Joy in Later Life I have a few things on my mind at the moment, and this morning I wondered why I’m feeling tired. I suspect a lot of mental energy is being spent on thinking through different things and making decisions. Perhaps that’s more exhausting now than it was when I was younger. When […]

The Weight of Expectations: My Personal Journey Through Comfort, Struggle, and Acceptance

Reading about Kate Manne’s reflections in Unshrinking hit close to home. Her insights on fatphobia and the societal pressures surrounding weight resonated deeply with my own experiences. At 67, I’ve lived through decades of navigating a world where my size felt like a defining factor—a source of both internal battles and external judgment. I’ve struggled […]

The importance of new challenges

Curiosity is an important characteristic in maintaining good psychological health as we age. Research consistently shows that those who remain intellectually engaged experience better cognitive function and greater life satisfaction in their later years. This isn’t merely about keeping busy – it’s about maintaining genuine engagement with life. It’s essential to actively seek out ways […]

Give your brain a rest

Hi, it’s Dr Denise down at the wood and it’s a while since I’ve done one of my videos. I just needed to get away, away from home technology. I’ve also not been feeling 100%, and they always say go out and get some fresh air. So, I thought, well, why not drive to my […]